I'm not sure I understand your original problem (besides the right-click thing just discovered).
My suggestion is to go to
http://www.kellys-korner-xp.com/taskbarplus!.htm
( http://tinyurl.com/3egdk is a better link to the same site)
and see if the
Taskbar Repair Tool Plus! or something else there can help you.
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